Should I Stay or Should I Go? The Ultimate Relationship Question

By Keezy | Feb 10, 2019 12:27 AM

 

The idea of a perfect relationship is so thrilling that people are willing to endure quite a bit before they bow out gracefully (or not so gracefully).

Those that have invested years into the relationship may find it extremely hard to let go, even when they’re being treated awful or aren’t happy anymore.

 

The idea of a perfect relationship is so thrilling that people are willing to endure quite a bit before they bow out gracefully (or not so gracefully). Those that have invested years into the relationship may find it extremely hard to let go, even when they’re being treated

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One can argue correctly that a major reason most people choose to end a relationship with a loved one is as a result of – Unmet expectations.

Some people call it unhappiness, some call it lack of fulfillment but in simple words, the relationship is not meeting their expectations.

 

If you find yourself unfulfilled in a relationship, ask yourself the following probing questions:

  • Why do I feel this way?
  • What would make it so that I do feel fulfilled?
  • Am I going to feel this way if I get into a relationship with someone else?
  • Does it have anything to do with my partner?
  • Is there something my partner could do different that would make things better?

If you find yourself answering, “yes” to the last question, then you really shouldn’t break up with your partner.

It’s worth noting that all couples fight, and all couples have emotional issues that they have to work through.

If you’re in it for the long haul and want to marry this person eventually, you really shouldn’t be turning to breaking up your relationship at the first sign of distress.

When you have an understanding partner, you should voice this unfulfillment to them, and discuss where you two can go.

Not only do these types of discussions make your bond and relationship stronger, but it could help link the both of you on a stronger bridge than ever before.

However, if you or your partner decide to give up without trying to mend the trust issues, there may be deeper issues affecting your relationship.

In most cases, someone who isn’t willing to work on a relationship already has one foot out the door.

With that being said, let’s examine the common immature excuses for ending a relationship.

 

 

IMMATURE EXCUSES FOR BREAKING OFF THE RELATIONSHIP

 

Some people genuinely believe others would be better off without them, and those people may be suffering from depression or something similar.

If you’re the person suffering, and your significant other hasn’t made an effort to understand your depression, they may not be the right one for you.

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